
Norma “Nancy” O’Neal
LIBERTY – Norma “Nancy” O’Neal, a woman whose life was defined by her unwavering independence, love for family and deep affection for animals, passed away peacefully at home on Feb. 17, 2025.
Nancy was born on Jan. 9, 1953, in Hartford, Conn., to Elsie Stanley and Frederick O’Neal. She is survived by her devoted husband, Brian Smith, and her three children, Nichole, Fred, and Frank O’Neal. She was a proud and loving grandmother, treasuring every moment she had with her grandchildren. She also leaves behind her brother, Joseph Paul, his wife, Patty, nieces, nephews, and grandnieces and grandnephews, among whom she shared a very special bond with Janaya.
Nancy had a profound love for animals, welcoming any creature in need into her home. There wasn’t an animal that didn’t love her in return. Over the years, she cared for many pets, but her heart was especially drawn to rottweilers. Her favorites – Wazoo, Mya, and Dillon Dog – were not just pets but true companions, each a big baby in her eyes. Her love extended to her feline friends as well, with Monkey-Do, Moxie, and Newton, holding a special place in her heart. However, her dearest companion was her beloved cat, Pony, who was always by her side.
Throughout her life, Nancy worked in various roles, bringing dedication and compassion to everything she did. She spent years at Sam’s Club before finding her true calling as a caregiver. As a Certified Nursing Assistant, she provided comfort and care to countless individuals. Her most fulfilling work was at Hayden House, where she ensured special needs adults received the dignity and care they deserved. She also worked at Riverview Psychiatric Hospital, where she treated every patient with understanding, free of fear or prejudice.
A lover of classic films, Nancy enjoyed watching her vast collection of VHS and DVD movies. Her all-time favorite, Gladiator, was watched countless times but she also had a love of horror stories (especially Stephen King) and Johnny Depp films.
Nancy loved going up to the family camp on Moosehead Lake, where she found peace in nature. She also enjoyed catching up with loved ones including her hours-long chats with her daughter, her niece Chasity and her brother Joe.
Nancy was a truly special person – unique, loving, and unafraid to be herself. She gave endlessly to those around her, both human and animal, and the world is a little less bright without her. She will be missed dearly and forever remembered by those who had the privilege of knowing and loving her.
Rest in peace, Nancy. You were deeply loved, and your spirit will live on in the hearts of all who knew you.
Apc-oc knomiyul
(Until we meet again)
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