My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We started dating in high school and he’s in his first year of college, while I’m wrapping up school to move on to university. He’s struggled with depression for years, and consistently comes to me for consolation. During the past three weeks, pressure from his family has put him over the edge. He hasn’t spoken to me properly since our anniversary (three weeks ago) and has been hanging out with an apparently platonic female friend a lot. She’s cutting his hair and taking him to parties, while he won’t say a word to me. I love him, and he keeps me on an even keel; usually I keep him happy, or at least he swears I do. All he’s said during the past few weeks is that he thinks we could work out when he clears up, but how long should I put up with this? I don’t know what to do and I feel a little thrown away. What should I do?