Patsy Mae (Tardiff) White

VASSALBORO – Patsy Mae (Tardiff) White, 69, passed away peacefully at home with her husband by her side on Thursday, June 15, 2023.

She was born March 20, 1954 in Waterville, the daughter of Bernard and Rena (Sylvain) Tardiff. She attended Winslow schools, graduating from Winslow High School in 1974. She married Douglas F. White on April 23, 1983 in Vassalboro.

She was employed in the Accounting field for many years ending her career at O’Brien’s Oil in China, due to declining health. Pat enjoyed boating, snowmobiling, hosting Halloween parties and spending time with family and friends. She will be remembered for her beautiful smile, quick wit and her caring, compassionate spirit.

She was predeceased by her father, Bernard Tardiff, her mother, Rena Tardiff, father in-law, Floyd “Ikey” White; brother in-law, Nelson Adams, sister-in-law, Cathy (White) Fisher.

She is survived by her husband of 40 years, Douglas F. White of Vassalboro; brother, Paul Tardiff (Maggie) of Waterville, sisters Barbara Otis (John) of Lebanon, Marlene Cobb of Vassalboro, Theresa Tardiff (Mark McCluskey) of Fairfield; mother in-law, Theresa White of Vassalboro; sister-in-law, Nancy Adams of Winslow, brothers-in-law Harland White (Ann) of Vassalboro, Glen Fisher of Vassalboro; and many nephews, nieces; and cousins.

A Celebration of Life will be held at St. Bridget’s Event Center, 864 Main St., Vassalboro on Friday, June 30, from 1 to 3 p.m.

Arrangements under the direction and care of Dan and Scott’s Cremation and Funeral Services, 445 Waterville Rd., Skowhegan, ME 04976.

The family would like to thank Dr. Knausenberger at Northern Light Inland Hospital and a special thank you to the nurses and staff at Northern Light Hospice for their care of Pat in her final days.

“Take a lump of clay,

wet it, pat it,

Make a statue of you,

and make a statue of me

and then shatter them,

clatter them,

add some H2O

and break them and

mold them

and a statue of me,

Then in mine, there

are bits of you, and

in you there are bits of me.

Nothing ever shall

keep us apart.”


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