I have a secret. I am in a 10-month long-distance relationship with a man who treats me like a queen, is very sweet to me and, though he has a ton of friends to do things with, makes lots of time for us to be together. Here’s the catch: While using his laptop, I saw that he had been reading messages from women on dating sites. When I called him on it, he told me that he was just curious and he “had nothing to hide,” but would stop looking. But of course my confidence in his fidelity was breached, so after a month of sleepless nights, I decided I needed to know just what was going on. I read his phone texts and saw that last month he had told his last girlfriend that she was the best thing that ever happened to him, and he still loved her. I also read he took a girl he dated before me to lunch. In his emails, I read where he had reconnected with a girlfriend from his teenage years, writing her long letters depicting me as only a casual friend and making tentative plans to meet this fall — this from a man who begs me to move in with him and who wants to know my whole family. I know I was wrong to snoop, but how can this be good for either one of us? Please help.